Your attorney can set up a trust that will manage any money that your leave to your children. It is inexpensive and can be added to your simple will. You could leave the care and upbringing of your children to your Mom and Dad, but choose a couple of other people that you "trust" to manage the money in your children's trust. Life insurance is a good way to fund such a trust.
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